The bee has forgotten the door!

The most important thing whenever you are in a problem is not to start immediately doing something. Just sit silently, relax, rest, be in a let-go. Rather than trying to find out the way, watch from where you have entered, because each problem has its own solution and each question has its own answer in it.

It is the same we see, we feel at times in our life.
This is akin to the bee which has entered the house through the open main door.

Bees seem to have something like human minds, exactly the same kind of stupidity. The doors may be open, but if a bee is inside the room, caught inside the room... and she may have come from the open door but she will try to get out from the closed window and the more she tries, the more desperate she becomes, because there is no way to get through the ceiling or through the wall or through the closed window. And in that desperation, frustration he becomes more and more blind, afraid, scared. He loses all intelligence. And the same is the case with human beings.

We often get into the room through the open door and then forget the very door through which we entered it. Then we end up like the bee - blind, afraid, scared.

So remember yourself in this room when in tension when:
The 21K Blackberry is paper weight,
The 25K Tab has been stolen,
The fight is on for the black belt,
And the tension on for continuing it or not to a year later,
To upgrade from the small to the Big car above your budget and unable to manage the emi,
To upgrade to the Biggest car and use the small car,
To try and buy the bigger flat, when you are staying at your own smaller house,
To look for another job when the current jobs pays for your reasonable life,
You have a job, but the job is then the source of daily tension,
You are not married and want to,
You are married and dont want to,
You dont have a kid and want to,
You already havd a kid and a job and a apartment and want one more kid to play with,
But then you have a kid and then that too is difficult for your job,
Your job boosts your ego and not your money,
Your job boosts your money and not your ego,
Your job and housework are not manageable, but still refuse a full time maid although you can afford to,
Your parents are not there after marriage and no one to take care of home,
Your parents are there after marriage, but you want Privacy,

Worth noting, in all these cases it is the bee that has forgotten the door.