Is it love or lack of it?

Cant help wonder why between the two lovers, the girl friend does not look with love and feelings into the eyes of another man?
Ever wonder why between the two lovers, the husband does not look with love and feelings into the eyes of another woman?

Hmm worth wondering, worth noting down.

1. Could it be the fear of the conditioning, that a wife is not supposed to have feeling for another man or vice versa?
2. Could be because she loves the better half so much nothing more is needed?
3. Could it be the fear that he might fall in love with the other?
4. Could it be the resignation to the fate of already being in love?
5. Or it could also be the utter laziness of having to work out another relation?

Unlimited could be's. Worth knowing yourself. But then keep it yourself.

Ever wondered, that if the love for the other is strong enough then there is no fear for him or her to not look another person with attachment?

Couldnt it be the lack of confidence that, she might fall in love and then what happens to the other? Or the egos coming into play?

Ever felt the situation where you love your dog so much, but still you see another dog on the road and feel the same compassion towards it? You want to feed it, you want to give it a good scratch when it looks lovingly at you and wags its tail?
Worth wondering. Why the equations change. Worth wondering what was lacking in the human relation, was it confidence in the love that one has to the other? Or is it the society?

If the other, really was true love, then talking on mystical terms, taking everything out that relation would still leave it so full that there is nothing left to be wanting for? For good love is just about reason-less relation.

Cant we be so pure and confident to boldly look at another with love? For we know the love for the partner is the Whole? Couldnt it be the lack of confidence that, she or he might fall in love and then what happens to the other?

The vedanta saying here is worth mentioning - Om Purnamadah purnamidam purnaat purnamudachyate Purnasya purnamaadaaya Purnamevaavasishyate

\\Take out the full from the full and it still remains Full \\